Saturday, August 30, 2008

3 D of seperation

Couple separation is a painful inevitability condition.
Primarily disharmony, infidelity, wishes not fulfilled, no progeny...( this is though hypocritically advocated as a not a cause but then icon like Kamal Hasan Actor - v Ganpati broke up due to this issue and Sarika entered his life !! this is in India ... Brand Pit leaves J.Anniston only on this ground to go for A jolley !!!! )
What causes ... It is a vast open subject many of us may not agree on any decision..There will be always a diff solution and a better one too in opinion giving person views.
One thing is certain they all can be classified and may take a different perspective .. in hope of creating some gross study
It is 4D always
1 Distance.. 2 Divorce 3 Death 4 Dissatisfaction
Distance
For most of the couple living in diff cities and meeting on weekends .. keep them go ahead. carry on and they all enjoy ... But the same deprival due to distance sometimes .... makes someone a seating duct for hunting ... Numerous cases when an earning member goes to diff countries ... spouses manage by a little affair here and there .. PL THE ETHICS BIASED PEOPLE, DO TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE VENUE NEED FACTOR.
Affairs are time bound .. just to be REMEMBER in PRIVACY....
If the marriage goes on due to children, society, status .. people accept this distance many a time starts from few inches ... in seating on a bench together .. and may end up diff cities living..!!!!!
Divorce
This is a station of a couple living separately a huge new angle pain, rehabilitation, judges will decide ... children .. fellow members even the friends who accompanied for a little flirt ... are not wanting this D...
DEATH
This is decided by GOD all mighty .. Natural law .. so when we are struggling to adjust to our acquired problems this is NATURE for centuries it is handled better ...
DISSATISFACTION
Not getting wishes primary .. fulfilled like not having a kid and soon people may not agree it is a lame excuse but people do If the marriage is not working on the excuses will be carved out and manufactured even ... A lot of even more problems having couples are still managing their union even though no status, financial dependency, children are not involved ... It's up to intolerance of individuals and the couple.. rarely a reason or a bunches of reasons + grounds. They all are carved out and cultivated and nursed too !!